All of my life I search for someone to love, someone to make me complete. I choose partners and change partners. I dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for me, too.
But I am only me. That is all I can be. No more, no less. I love, I live, I laugh, I cry. Some days I am funny, others I’m not. Sometimes I’m in overdrive and I cannot stop. You may not like me, but that’s okay because this is me, and how I’ll stay.
The most genuine accomplishments in life don’t come from helping the masses but from helping the people in our small circle of influence. The most important people are the ones who make their closest friends and family feel cherished and welcomed in their presence. You are that person! You can impact your loved ones life more than any television superstar.
We all need love and respect as individuals – from the baby in its crib to the grandfather in his chair. But most of us don’t realize that love and respect – like charity – begin at home, with ourselves. I am important, not because of, or despite, anything. With all my flaws and my facets, I am important. To me.
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Ways to be silly:
- Tell jokes to strangers.
- Dance freely.
- Twirl in circles.
- Sing at the top of your lungs.
- Get on the floor and play with a little kid.
- Do a cannonball.
- Climb a tree.
- Go sledding. Snow days are the perfect opportunity to get in touch with your silly side.
Try to have a cheerful laugh. A person who has a pleasant laugh or a warm smile plastered on their face while meeting friends or someone new comes across as a fun person to spend time with. If you want to be positive, you have to start by being seen as a happy and fun person.
Happy, funny and silly people always have a better life. They have more friends, and people always bond better with them instantly. After all, funny people are memorable people.