Sometimes, the lesson to be learned in a relationship is how to hang in there and try to work things out. Other times, the lesson to be learned is how to exit a situation that doesn’t serve. No one can determine for another person what principle applies in what circumstance. It is ultimately our connection to the Holy Spirit, our own intuitional guidance that alone can lead us to the higher unfoldment of events through the deepest understanding. ~ Marianne Williamson ~
The only person you can change is yourself. So if you think you can go into, or stay in, a relationship and change your partner, think again. Only if your partner wants to change, will they actually try to change. If something major needs fixing, you’re better off without that relationship. But if you feel comfortable in your surroundings and are free to express yourself at home with music, art, and food, you have something very valuable.
There is no right decision on whether or not to stay or leave. Decisions are like everything else, relative. It doesn’t matter if it is “right” or not, you make a decision and then make it right for you. Problems in significant relationships effect our anxiety and depression more than any other factor in our life because our relationships and their success define us.
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