Happiness always sneaks in a door you did not think was open. To love oneself is the beginning of your journey to happiness. If you are searching for happiness, it doesn’t mean that everything is perfect, it means that you have decided to look beyond the imperfections.
A healthy relationship (could be a friend, family member, mate, etc.) brings out the best in you, inspires you to live fully, and encourages you to live true to yourself. Your happiness and peace don’t need to be sacrificed in order to maintain a healthy friendship, and indeed the opposite seems to be true. We really don’t want that person to be exactly like us, for that would be boring. This means you have to be open and tolerant to other’s opinions and beliefs. Agreeing to disaagree is not only interesting, but healthy, so embrace it.
A good and supportive friend is a remedy for the burdens we bear in this lifetime. Keep active, pursue what brings you joy, and if you find that you’re obligated to do something you don’t enjoy, find a way to make it more meaningful. A meaningful life is a happy life.
When looking for a significant other, or maybe just a good friend, find the person who calls you beautiful/handsome instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on them, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or stay awake just to watch you sleep. The one who turns to their friends and says, “that’s the one for me”.
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